August 3, 2017

I Found My Dream Job and I Am Now More Disconnected Than Ever...Let Me Explain.

(Finally) finding a job has allowed me to disconnect…Let me explain.

I will open with a scenario many of us have experienced when looking for work. It’s no secret I’ve spent my fair share of time over the past five years on the job hunt. This isn’t because I can’t find work, it’s actually quite the contrary. I have been on the hunt so frequently because I strive to find the right job for me. Anyone who is driven to find that perfect job will tell you job hunting is a full-time job in itself. Sending upwards of 20 resumes a day online with the hope someone will notice and actually read what comes across their desk. There are the countless phone screens, phone interviews with recruiters, awaiting the call saying you’ve been passed through to someone who actually works for the company, etc. Then there’s the phone interview, the second phone interview, (for God sakes probably the third phone interview) and then you are so fortunate to be invited into the office for a real interview. This is all beside the point I am trying to make, which is a feeling some of us m* words may feel when they become  disconnected from their ever-important mobile device for a specific period of time.

For instance: While job searching online took up a wide margin of my day, the other time spend surfing the internet was spent via social media which isn’t a surprise to anyone. Keeping up with Facebook updates, tweets, Instagram postings and blogs on that rocket ship of a website called Barstool Sports helped pass the time while I waited for that next big phone call. In a way, I felt like I was on top of EVERYTHING. However, looking at it from another lens, what exactly was I on top of?

World news, politics, business, sports, I knew it all. I followed tweets of my favorite bloggers, frequently refreshed Instagram to see who was taking pictures of what, you know that whole deal. But finally, at long last on July 17th, I was offered a job which I believe is perfect. I began working there this week and it’s safe to say with complete honesty…I am LOST when it comes to being in the know.

"What do you mean lost? You have a job and can finally stop scrolling the internet and get down to business?" What I mean is the past three days I’ve come home and felt so overwhelmed by catching up on Twitter, podcasts, blogs etc. that I thought I was headed for a legitimate breakdown. Hell, I went a full day on Tuesday not knowing Julian Edelman was thrown out of practice for fighting Stephon Gilmore, imagine that? 

The reality is this: I went for a walk last night knowing I had six podcasts I hadn’t listened to, about half a day’s worth of Barstool blogs I hadn’t seen, a FULL day of Instagrams I hadn’t checked…and guess what? I realized that this is amazing. I had spent so many weeks (while job hunting) being engaged in social media and on top of all sports news that when I finally was unable to physically keep up, I felt free. There is so much content one can access that it  will literally make you think you’re headed for breakdown and it simply is not worth getting worked up about it. So my advice is this: go for a walk, and don’t worry about if you can’t listen to Pardon My Take within the first day of a new episode release. You’ll catch up eventually, which is what I’ve finally done in my professional life.



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